Wednesday, June 6, 2007

Bloghers Act!

BlogHers Act

Blogher wants to know what issues the Blogher community would like to see addressed in a year long initiative. Get involved and let them know!

Here's my issue. A true story:

When I was in graduate school, I worked with profoundly mentally retarded adults. One of my clients, Joan, was a very loving, affectionate woman of 53. Cognitively, she was roughly two and a half years old.
There were a lot of rumors about Joan's childhood; stories of being locked away in closets and basements. I don't know how many of the rumors were true (I suspect more than a few). I did know one thing for certain: Joan had not been outside of the institution she lived in for over 30 years. It was my job to change that.
It wouldn't be easy. Joan was terrified to leave the safety of the facility. First we walked near the front door. Then, we touched it. We opened it a crack. We stuck our head out. We stepped outside.
After months of work and a few small outings, I decided to go for something big. It was Christmas, after all. Our small town had a rather elaborate display of Christmas lights, complete with a real live Santa Claus. Had Joan ever had a chance to meet Santa Claus? I had no idea.
As we drove through the light display, Joan was ecstatic. She gestured and jabbered, clapped and "sang" with the Christmas carols on the radio. Then, the big moment: Santa. Joan was awestruck. She touched his red suit, stroked his beard (God Bless that patient man in the Santa suit!). I was nearly in tears. At 53, Joan was enjoying a typical Christmas tradition that most of us take for granted.

The cause that is closest to my heart is protecting and promoting the rights, dignity, and quality of life of people like Joan.




9 comments:

Crimson Wife said...

What a wonderful story! Thanks for sharing this at CHBM :-)

DSB said...

I wish there were more people like you in this world; your story (and Joan's) brought tears to my eyes.

Surfed in via the CHBM carnival.

Mama Zen said...

Thanks for the kind words. I was really lucky to know Joan.

Thanks for visiting!

Madame M. said...

Beautifully written, and incredibly worthwhile. Good for you.

Jenny McB said...

This is a HUGE issue! After 21, it's sinful what is available for disabled adults.

People like Joan are a neglected section of our society. There just isn't enough resources and more need to be aware. Good post!

Emily said...

Wow, what a powerful post. Thank you so much for sharing it with us all!! This is such a big and important issue.

Mama Zen said...

Thanks for commenting. I know this probably won't end up being a "hot button" issue, but I do believe that it is incredibly important.

MomOf3 said...

I used to work at a group home, several in fact! This is a wonderful story! I bet Joan still talks about this!

Mama Zen said...

Momof3 - I wish I knew. I haven't seen Joan in years. After she had a change of guardianship, she was moved to another facility.